cos i've got myself into a bit of a mess,and i need to know if i should cry or not.You see,this guy i really like,lives in italy and is dating an american girl.Stupid me admitted i liked him and got these messages.

oh, it aint ridiculous... I mean I dunno Shantelle lives so far away... Oh yeah Im movin2Wales, m'dad gotta job offer.
If u like me hunny, like me, its fine. I dont judge

and when i asked him why he was so nice (yes i know very mature question)

cos m'life and d'darkest of times in m'life hav made me dat person. Ystrday I discovrd m'best m8 has got2geva wid m'ex, a few weeks earlier he usd me2flirt wida girl and mock me2luk funny... Today I rlisd I hav2find m'real friends and each of em I luv so much- u r one of those

love is not a game for idiots, jus cos you like me it don't mean youre an idiot! DO NOT DOWNTREAD YOURSELF!
Id like to see pics of you though

good good. Oh btw ur a r.beautifl girl...

why are you feelin guilty?

its not stupid so stop being stupid by being so hard on yourself, you like me, I don't mind, if you are happy then that's good. No more-no less

LIFE IS NOT ****!

dammit.I have no idea what the hell is going on.but yeah,if anyone could tell me what any of this actually means.probably nothing,but i'm still gonna get slaughtered when his girlfriend comes online...ARGH!

anyone?

I'd help, Jen... but that writing is really confuzzing me

oh dear,i can't edit it...thanks anyway

Right, you like a guy, and he lives in Italy?

yep,and he's dating a girl who lives in america.I got myself into a mess by admitting i like him.Those are the messages he sent me.They confuse me.

He lives in Italy or is he from Italy?

both

Oh.

And he's dating someone American.

But she's too far away... did he say that himself?

yep.He said everything but "and when i asked him why he was so nice (yes i know very mature question)" that's me

He says he doesn't judge

yep.And i got this pic comment from him.(btw,it was a pic of me in my jim-jams)

yum yum jimjams! Wish I was dere

*confused*

Good luck?

You know what, Jen, I think he likes you

greaaat.That's all very well,except one teensy snag.He has a girlfriend.my life sucks

lol,thanks fia.It confused me too

i have no idea what's going on here

me either. ok from what i can sum up this guy you like i assume you met him online,is from italy and has a g/f in america?

My advice - be careful. And if he really likes you as Fia has already said then he'll make the move. He'll dump his g/f for you if he really really likes you. if not, hes just another guy using another girl.

I'm sort of talking to this guy online and i think i like him. But i'm trying to tread very carefully with this because its the first time ive done something like this and i dn't really know if he's really nice. like really nice.

Ok, so let me sum up, because like hayley i'm not getting much of this.

So you like an italian guy - and i take it you've met him on the net, and he's got an american g/f?

quote:

Originally posted by SJP:
me either. ok from what i can sum up this guy you like i assume you met him online,is from italy and has a g/f in america?

My advice - be careful. And if he really likes you as Fia has already said then he'll make the move. He'll dump his g/f for you if he really really likes you. if not, hes just another guy using another girl.

I'm sort of talking to this guy online and i think i like him. But i'm trying to tread very carefully with this because its the first time ive done something like this and i dn't really know if he's really nice. like really nice.

I know exactly what you mean.He's aked me if it's bad that he's starting to really like me,as he's in a relationship.If he dumps his gf,then all's well,but if he doesn't,i'm not getting involved.I know the dangers of the internet and i'm not stupid.Besides,he lives in italy so it's not like we're ever gonna meet.