I didn't know where else to go but i thought maybe you could help! as the title says i'm a bit messed up! I have a boyfriend who has been there for me this past year and i love him to bits! but this other guy i have met now at my new job and we have become really close friends like sharing stuff and going out alot! and i think i have fallen in love with him! he's just come out of a relationship which has brought us even closer together and there is a thing between us! I just don't know what to think! Please help!

Hmm, difficult situation!! I suggest you do nothing for the time being, as it is possible you are only feeling that close to the guy because he is your best mate at your new job and he made you feel so welcome. You have suffered a big change in your life and therefore you need some time to settle and get your head straight. After a while these feeling may go away and you will realise he is just a friend, that's what happened to me. However, if it doesn't, it's a horrible thing to say, but you're gonna have to make a list, good and bad qualities of both and decide which one is most worthwhile. Which one is heading in the same direction as you? Which one shares the same interests?
Bear in mind that you know your bf a lot better than this other person and they may have all these bad qualities that you don't know about. Make sure you know them really well before you throw everything you have away for him