Last week my boyfriend brok up with me. compeletely out of the blue i might add. afterwoods we had a huge argument, in which he called me some terrible names, that id rather not go into. Turns out the reason he did it is because some girl who liked him tod him i was cheating. He found out she lied and now he wants to get back with me. but the way he acted was really hurtful. aso i kind of like some one else.
But considering before we broke up everything was gr8 i am thinkin about it. What do you think shoud i give him another chance.
Well it's understandable, if someone was to tell you your boyfriend was cheating on you, you might choose not to believe them but those doubts would still be there in the back of your head. However to respond the way he did and completely believe some silly little bint over his own girlfriend isn't good. I think you should give him one last chance, but explain that he's got to put alot more trust in you if he ever wants to consider you his girlfriend again.
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It depends if you could forget the hurtful things he said to you. He was obviously very upset but also shouldnt have said what he did if it upset you that much. You need to decide wether to try and make it work and forget the things he said or move on. Not neccessarily to someone else but stay single for a while and decide what you want to do. Dont lead either of them on though.
The exact same situation has happened to me. I gave the guy another chance but even after that he believed all the crap that some so-called 'friends' made up about me...so...
It all depends on you. Are you willing to take the chance that he might believe more stupid rumours in the future?
Then again, (coz I'm too much of a sofite), I forgive my boyfriends for MOST things... so I can't really give you any GOOD advice.
Follow ya heart babes. (God, I ramble!)
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we talked and decided it was best to stay broken up. im going to a seperate college to the 1 he's in and that girl who told him that lie is his partner in photography and that would just make me paranoid. and it was also bad cos id be worried she was still telling him stuff about me. the stress just isnt worth it