i nd some advice on this small problem ive got.i've just had a baby 12 weeks ago.and since my baby was 2 weeks old my boyfriends mum has had her for one day a week.but i didnt really want it to happen even tho by bf did.so one day i told my bf how i was feelin.and asked him 2 ask his mum if she could leave takin her for just now.but she went in a real bad mood and didnt fone or talk 2 him in 3 weeks.but theyve started talkin again and now shes asked if she can have my baby for that one day again.i dnt want it 2 happen as i think my baby is still 2 young i hated her not bn with me.can anyone give me some tips on wat 2 do? and does this sound really mean of me?she asks like my baby is hers and thinks she should she my baby all the time.

hey pls can someone give me some advice on this is really startin 2 do my head in.cos i have 2 decide by 2nite wat i want 2 do.

u need to compromise, talk to her and tell her how you're feeling, but at the end of the she is the baby's grandma and does have a right to see the baby.

yeh i agree with ForeverFriend and plus you could ak if u and the baby can go and then u wil still be there with her and then when the babies older she can be left alone with their grandma

thanks for ur advice.i'll nd 2 c wat happens. thanks

i would go with my baby but my bfs mum hasnt spoke 2 me since i asked her 2 leave talkin my baby for the time being.