I dont know if im putting this in the right Forum but what the heck.
Ok so it starts off. Ive been talking to this guy on The Internet for a few months now. Hes not like a total stranger or anything i do kind of know him as he stays in the same town as me. My m8 knows him to talk to and that. She sent him a picture of me ages ago and he liked me And so we started to talk over the internet. Weve met eachother a couple of times but didnt really have the time to talk and of course im kind of shy so didnt have a clue what to say to him. He asked me out on a date a while ago but i turned him down because i wasnt really looking for a relationship (i know it was just a date). So we still talked on the net and txt eachother but we started to talk less and less when i turned him down for the second time. I got to know him really well and felt like i knew him inside out even though i had never really met him for like more that 10 minuites. Now ive not spoke to him for about 2 months or so and in thouse 2 months i realised what i had lost really. I saw him in town a few days ago with another girl. Wheather that girl was just a friend or what i dont know. But my immediate thought was hes moved on from me and found someone else.I felt hurt because i started to really really like him. I dont know for sure if hes got a new girlfriend but thats all i can think of nowadays and it bringing me down. We dont even talk anymore or txt eachother.I know its my fault for turning him down in the first place but i feel so hurt inside.

Point to this is Do you think i should tell him how i really feel and let it all out.
or just let it go. Or what should i do.

For anyone who actually Reads this i appreciate it cause i know most people wont.

I think you should many text him or something, cuz u aint spoken 4 couple months or seen each other really. So just put it out on plate, if he feels same way gr8. If not at least you can say you tried

You should tell him, at the end of the day, you haven't got anything to lose.
Worst case scenario is that he tells you he's moved on, but cos u haven't seen or spoken to him in ages anyway, you haven't lost anything by telling him, but u will feel better knowing that he knows how u feel about him, but you won;t lose anything by telling him.
And you never know, if he knows how u feel and he HAS got another gf, he might end it with her and come back to you cos maybe he only got with this other girl cos he thought u didn't like him, if u see what i mean?

Hope that helps and Good Luck hon xxx

Thanks. I surpose your both right. What do i have to lose. And that way if he has moved on and dosent want to know. Then i can get over him and move on also. Although that will be hard.

let us know how everything works out hun x

yeh u should tell him and thn u wil kno if there is really something there 2 hang on for!

Just thought id let u all know that i did txt him today and just told him streight how i felt. He said he still really likes me but he has a new girlfriend and really likes her to. So we decided just to be friends. like we were in the first place. Not wat i wanted to hear but at least he still wants to know me.

Thats good you gonna be friends, you to can also get to know each other better, and you will b able to find out from him if he splits wid her, then mayb u 2 can start finkin bout seein each other....

u should get som1 he dnt know 2 tell his new bird that she slept wid him n he gave her crabs that will scare da new gf off and u can then get in dere wid him lol.

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Originally posted by lou-p-lou:
u should get som1 he dnt know 2 tell his new bird that she slept wid him n he gave her crabs that will scare da new gf off and u can then get in dere wid him lol.

ha ha lol good one!! tehe

if it makes u feel tis sad then u shud tlk 2 him, otherwise u mite regret it even more! just do wot u fink is best, becoz at the end of the day, u shud only do wot u want 2 and wot u feel is right. hope it goes ok wot ever u do chose 2 do, luv Jess xXx

you should just tell him how you feel. if he feels the same way, great. but if he doesn't, just remain friends and look for someone else

I'd just tell him how you feel, you don't have anything to loose!