It seems that a number of former participants are attending these discussions.
I wonder how it had been to return to daily life after having been putted trough some life-changing and for some young people frightening experiences.
In Denmark we are now seeing season 2. Stage 1 of the program, the teenagers was ordered to stay in some stone circles, where they had to sit or stand in without resting. A disposition, which young people would feel as being placed in a stressful position because they could not lay down. In Denmark, we just had a trial against Danish soldiers because they had treated possible terrorist in Iraq like that. Why can teenagers be put trough a treatment that is not allowed against terrorists?
Then there is the amount of food. In Utah, the camps must provide 2000 cal per child every day by law. In Denmark we think that an adult resting all day must eat between 1700-2300 cal per day. Is it not putting the teenagers life at risk? They are not resting. They are walking burning a lot of cal.
Also after the camp, we know from soldiers returning from Bosnia and Iraq that a period of no changes and de-briefing before they can continue with their life. In this case, a period of staying close with the family would repair the mixed feelings of being abandoned the teenagers must deep-down feel. Did you have a kind of de-briefing returning home? Not having them could result in either a need to return to the sub-reality the camp represent or a direct depressed situation resulting in a renewed search for a method of forgetting reality.
It seems that the whole concept is making teens do an adult training. I am a former marathon-runner and Ironman. I can recognize motivated behaviour from forced behaviour.
After being bullied for nearly ten years in public school and experience a suicide nearby by one of the other victims being bullied, I decided to start over working in an other town only staying in my hometown sleeping and training. For nearly three years, I had only a limited contact with people outside my job. I started on a project that could show people, that even an overweight young man like men could become highly trained athlete.
It was hard, sometime during winter storms it was likely unhealthy, but I did it deliberated. I have pictures from Helsinki marathon with my T-shirt covered in blood because of ripped nibbles. I have no pictures from the last 10K in New York Marathon because I somehow ended up in my hotelbed with cramps, because of a wrong intake of water. To this day I don’t know how I got from the finish line to the Hotel. My roommate told me that I did come home with a lot of bottles of water drinking them and then went to sleep with clothes on.
I was very motivated. Most of the time I know when to stop because I knew my body. I had to endure some pain because it was something I wanted. The teenagers in the program are forced and therefore they are at greater risk of being hurt. They would not be able to differ between “healthy” pain and “unhealthy” pain. They would have others things on their mind, like their family relations and their own relation with life.
One of our finest elite soldiers had said. “Without a secure homebase (family) the maximum result would be impossible to archive!” An example would be a sniper ready to take a shot. You can turn of the light and he would still be able to take his shot with an infrared aim. But if you place him on a rocking table, he would fail his shoot.
That why I think boot camps has it risks. That is also why I would like someone to monitor these teenagers for some years to go. To see if there is a long-term result.
Regards
Denmark