I think most women that I know try to make changes in any men they meet. When I met mine I had to get rid of his bad jersey collection and huge goggle glasses, once that was achieved he scrubbed up quite nicely.
My family recon he has changed me into Margo Leadbetter from the Good life, so men make changes to women as well!
My other half didnt need to change, but i made him more confident because he did have a low-self-asteem like myself, so we really helped one another over the years.