to me are the ones who are content just to be as nature intended..fat, skinny, thin, stretch marks, bald..the list goes on endlessly..it doesn't matter..I would rather have the company of someone who was interested in getting to know ME as a worthwhile human being rather than worrying what they look like..whether I will notice their spare tyre etc etc..yawn, yawn...an agile brain is always the biggest turn on by far..

The trouble is that (most) peoples view of themselves is based on the 'IDEALS' prevailing in society at the time.

Therefore, it requires an individual with a remarkable sense of self-worth and self-belief to rise above the domineering influence of society to be themselves. These people are rare.

I see myself falling into the media trap and looking at a person i find attractive and wondering 'why?'. but i think htlgn helped me to be able to do that.