I dont think its a good thing to compare yourselves to other families, families look different to other people to how they actually are. You might think a family you know are the perfect family but theyre probably not like that at all, they might have 10 arguments a day If you dont think your family matches up to theirs I don't think it means you've stopped loving them. You might just have a different relationship with members of them than what your friends or whoever you've been comparing yourself with has with theirs.