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Originally posted by SouthernGirl:

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Ooh thats cool, so there is hope haha look at me after a week all mushy.

Oh I never lived with my step mum, she to me was just the reason why my dad lived in another country and resented her for that.
Later I appreciated her.

so you never know

Hubby can still make me go mushy after all these years I lived with mine for a while and always got on with her, I don`t get on with step-Mum number 2 but I don`t see my Dad now, so it doesn`t matter to me

AWWW SG - your a ray of hope for all us non believers in the true love keeping the flame alive people So glad I got to meet you.
That is a shame about your dad, hope you are ok with that. hug

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AWWW SG - your a ray of hope for all us non believers in the true love keeping the flame alive people So glad I got to meet you.
That is a shame about your dad, hope you are ok with that. hug

It was my choice and I`m fine with it, my Sister still sees him but it doesn`t effect our relationship, its her choice We both say, we have learnt our mistakes from our first marriages, so do everything the opposite way now, it works for us, thats why I like to hear about your new relationship because so often you get to my age and people don`t think we can still be soppy and romantic but I love it and it brings back lovely memories of our marriage, if that makes sense?

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Originally posted by llloXolll:


AWWW SG - your a ray of hope for all us non believers in the true love keeping the flame alive people So glad I got to meet you.
That is a shame about your dad, hope you are ok with that. hug

It was my choice and I`m fine with it, my Sister still sees him but it doesn`t effect our relationship, its her choice We both say, we have learnt our mistakes from our first marriages, so do everything the opposite way now, it works for us, thats why I like to hear about your new relationship because so often you get to my age and people don`t think we can still be soppy and romantic but I love it and it brings back lovely memories of our marriage, if that makes sense?

yes it does, and hearing you tell me your story gives me hope and makes me forget my insecurities, its easier to run from something that feels really good in fear of it falling apart, but talking to you makes me think well that could be me if that makes sense? so we are making eachother feel good about our relationships, well your relationship (marriage) and my new man

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Originally posted by llloXolll:


yes it does, and hearing you tell me your story gives me hope and makes me forget my insecurities, its easier to run from something that feels really good in fear of it falling apart, but talking to you makes me think well that could be me if that makes sense? so we are making eachother feel good about our relationships, well your relationship (marriage) and my new man

Although I still think an awful lot of my ex Hubby, we did have a terrible marriage, as Hubby did and when we got together we swore we didn`t want to get married or have anymore children, within a year we were married and I was pregnant, follow your heart, not your head, not all relationships are the same and theres someone out there for everyone I love how you make me feel, Hubbys alright tonight

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Originally posted by SouthernGirl:

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Originally posted by llloXolll:


yes it does, and hearing you tell me your story gives me hope and makes me forget my insecurities, its easier to run from something that feels really good in fear of it falling apart, but talking to you makes me think well that could be me if that makes sense? so we are making eachother feel good about our relationships, well your relationship (marriage) and my new man

Although I still think an awful lot of my ex Hubby, we did have a terrible marriage, as Hubby did and when we got together we swore we didn`t want to get married or have anymore children, within a year we were married and I was pregnant, follow your heart, not your head, not all relationships are the same and theres someone out there for everyone I love how you make me feel, Hubbys alright tonight

LOL one day we will talk on the other thing and i will tell you exactly why you are such a ray of hope. back in 2002 I had a dream about my wedding my son was there too, i thought it was my son was my nephew aged 2 1/2 at the time, so i thought i would be getting married sept 2006 when i got pregnant and had a son. later i worked out I would meet the guy in Aug / sept 2006 LOL
Man you sound like me and him, we chatted about kids the other day, said we both dont want anymore kids. You know when you talk about all sorts. We were like heck no

aww that is good that I make you feel good