he can be very sweet at times & others times I feel as tho I have failed him altoghter

I know I am a softy & this is half of the troubble

both of my kids listen to there dad & do not do the things they do to me to him because they know that he will not put up with it.

my son is going through an angery patch for lack of a better term. he will get very angery & hit & kick me punch & say that I hate you If he does not get his way

he has been told over & over again that we do NOT hit women it is just not done he only does this when I am home because he knows that If his dad saw this not only would he get into hudge troubble but so would I for letting it happen

I have tried everything even to force hold him until he clams down

nothing seems to work I don't want this to keep happening because some day he will be much bigger & stronger that me & well it needs to stop now please help me jo I do not know what to do
sorry about the bad spelling
Kathy