theres no way in the world i'd leave my kids.99%of the time kids need their mothers obviously there are some times when a mother should not have her children but hopefully thats not a lot of the time.

It´s a very difficult situation when a mother can´t be with her children or a child. Lots of people out there are quick to judge a mother on her misfortune and never stop and wonder the reasons why.

In some cases it´s ok for the father to run away from his reasponsibilities but it´s not ok for the mother. I have a friend that has two children and they both live with their father, the children are happy they live with their father and they regularly see their mother at weekends etc. my friend also pays maintenance to the father. It is basically a situation reversed if the father had left.

My 14 year old daughter is now living with her father which has broken my heart, it is something I have had to deal with. I have 5 other children and it also broke their hearts too. This was a decision my 14year old made, not because she didn´t love us but because she had finally received the attention from her father she never received when she was younger.

My daughter is happy but she does miss her siblings, her step dad and me, the unfortunate thing for her is we all live in the canaries and she is in the Uk, so phone calls and emailing is like drinking water (all the time).