Chrissie, You don't have to justify yourself to anybody on here!!

You are going through a trauma, and your mind and body will be in a muddle right now. Just take care of you and yours, and the best of luck for the future!!

P.S. My Best friend got pregnant on the pill and was set to have a termination (the b/f was very unreliable and had a drug problem) and she had it arranged for two weeks ahead, then she had a miscarriage.....and she felt that loss so badly, her emotions were so topsy turvy. She still talks about it even now and you can see she is really hurting. It is still a loss

Hi, Thanks for the 2 replies since my last post.....very kind words from both of you.
I wish you both all the best in your future and if it happens again i will be sure to let you know!

Love and hugs ((((( x )))))

Chrissie xxx

Massive hugs, Chrissie.. I only wish you all the best.. One day, both of us will have another bundle, eh?

I used to work at an abortion clinic.
This all depends how early you are. Up to 9 weeks the ladies have their inducing pills the termination happens and then they have a cup of tea. Most leave after about 6 hours. Later abortions take longer, some stay over night. No abortions took place their after 15 weeks. Counselling is given a few days before and after the abortion and partners are not allowed to be present. You are informed of all options before you go ahead and sign. You must have your GP's signature and the signature of another doctor which is usually the one you will see at your counselling session who is attached to the clinic. The front door is locked and only the designated person by you may enter to wait for you to collect you. It is highly confidential. The attitude of staff is very calm and kind because it is better not to bring into this world a child that will have a hard life.
It is a sombre day but you will have made the right descision for you as long as you have had your counselling session.

So sorry for you Chrissy.

The womb has a away of telling us that something is not right.

Just love your little ones all the more.

xxxx