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i hav those little things like punch a break things i get rield up so easily i kno i do it i just dnt kno why its all confuesing i mean i dnt do it cuz i cant hav or get something to go my way im not spoilt or selfish in any way if any thin my mom n dad hav things off me n ask me for things but its like i wanna be left to do it myself if u interveen to much then it will anoy him what happens b4 these little tanrums happen change it turn it round my mom has i thing of just makin it funny all of a sudden thats just her shes sooo dopey but its funny but sometyms its that that p**ses me off cuz i get asked the same thing in the space of 5 mins like 15 times n i answer but i end up shoutin n shes like i only asked n im like i wouldnt mind if u asked me once u no so many things can make a teen kick off
hayley aka hailz xxxx
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quote: Originally posted by Wobbletastic:
Hey, bexi64… shut you annoying face, I can’t really make out what you’re on about but it doesn’t sound very nice. I’ve seen far too many irritating teenagers who think they are the centre of the universe to be bothered by your pathetic problems. So what if some of your clothes are being washed… wear some different ones, after all once you’ve seen one tracksuit you’ve seen them all.
lol very truely said bravo **clapps**
hayley aka hailz xxxx
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hi - i have an explosive 16 year old son and discovered he was smoking weed - he was becoming agressive when he couldnt get another joint, now he just smokes tobacco(the better of two evils im afraid) and hes much easier to get along with, the last time he was agressive i phoned the police and he spent a very sobering 4 hours in a police cell complaning that the mattress was too hard andn that he wanted a hot chocolate as it was bed-time!!! |It was the saddest moment of my life but the most sobering moment of his! The police were great and really made him afraid that the next time i wouldnt come and get him and he would spend the night there or the whole weekend if it was a friday - lets hope it doesnt come to this for your child!
On a more serious note try Dr Greene's book - Your Explosive Child - its great
good luch and
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quote: Originally posted by GinnyMc:
Hi, we have a 14 year old who loses his temper at the drop of a hat. Once he has lost it, he goes completely mad - shouts swear, breaks things, says the most awful things. The rest of us, now live in fear of the next tantrum. I have three other kids, who are much more even tempered. Does anyone have any experience of anger management for teens?
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I have a 14 year old teenage daughter who has major anger problems. She also has ocd I believe. She changes from loving to hateful in a matter of minutes sometimes. She screams, stomps the floor especially when told the word no. She has also hit me and her stepfather on occasions. I feel she is miserable with herself and maybe insecure. I and her stepfather dread coming home from work every day because we never know what her mood is going to be. Any suggestions PLEASE!!!
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Try and watch the TV show 'Supernanny' you will get loads of tips from her as you can tell in the title. Im sure it'll help any parent who is confused as to how to disipline their child. Her techniques really do work! Im not sure what channel theyre shown on now, but they were on C4.
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Be firm but never, ever, ever let them feel that they are not loved. I 've had two lads who went through the same thing myself and always felt that testosterone surges had a lot to do with it. The drumming strategy was one that I encouraged for one and marshall arts helped for the other.They are both in their mid twenties now, went to university and are doing very well.
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i have had 3 teenagers and its not nice!! but if you are firm but kind they will turn out fine ,all my children are older and all really good people ,there is a light at the end of the tunnel
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quote: Originally posted by PrincessBubbleYum:
Try and watch the TV show 'Supernanny' you will get loads of tips from her as you can tell in the title. Im sure it'll help any parent who is confused as to how to disipline their child. Her techniques really do work! Im not sure what channel theyre shown on now, but they were on C4.
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My nearly 12 year old son is very agressive. We've had 2 incidents this week in the space of 3 days. It starts off small and escalates into huge in seconds with him kicking the furniture and taking his anger out on his younger siblings. I feel that i'm the root of his anger and am considering letting him live with his dad as i don't think i can cope anymore. It's got to the point where i'm even missing work and don't want to leave the house. It's breaking my heart that my adored baby has grown into this arrogant, selfish, spiteful boy who hates me.
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