hiya
i no this isnt an addvice forum but i was wondering if you could may be help me.

i want to do a coures at college, but i have only been to college oneces befor and that was only for 3 hours a week.

i suffer from panic atks and anxiaty and this courses i want to do is one full day 8 hours for one day, i no most ppl will think well that isnt hard, if its only one day but it is. i dont no what to do take it or not, it is a lot of money over £600 for 5 month i feel if i miss a day then im wasting my mums money, but im really scared and i mean conpletly scared.
coz i dont like class room etheier and im a really shy person.

what shall i do go and pay £600 and if i canrt do it then alest i tryed but then i would of wasted my mums money or not go and find something els a bit easyer and not so longer hours but then i have to wait till september to do enything, coz that is when other coureses start. iv waited 4 mouths for this coures to come round.


help pleases

first of all, are you getting help for your panic attacks?

Secondly, if you feel you cannot attend a full day at college, is there an alternative homelearning course you could do instead, there are loads of options these days, check out floodlights.co.uk which should direct you to these websites.

What is the course?

im doing a dog groming coure i no its nothing big but im just dont no whAT TO DO IM REALLY STUK WHAT WOULD I DO IF I DID DO IT IM JUST REALLY DOWN AT THE MO I DONT NO WHAT TO DO

ooo ples help me

today i had another atk what would i do if i had one there!!!!

yes iam geting a litte help for it

it would be good for me in the way of it to do more things

but it mit turn the hole thing around and ill be to scared

pleas help i really dont no what to do take it or leave it

my brother dos'n understand boys just dont understand !!! i tryed asking him but he dosnt want to no

I agree with Bitchy, See your GP about the attacks and get them under some sortt of control. The other question I would ask is why dog grooming? £600 sounds really steep for such a course.

Cat ski has another good idea. Try a home learning course. Gets you into the learning habit at least.

Bad nerves are a really nasty thing to have but you really could do with a confidence boost. Stop listening to people who are negative for a start. And remember, you are not alone. The problem is a lot more common than you would believe.

If you really want to build soem confidence I would also recommend you post in Community and get to know some of the people in there. They are the best confidence boosters you will find.

hi so so

you sound nice! a bit sensitive maybe, but then so are a lot of us!

which type of dog do you like best? we like spaniels, king charles are gorgeous (charlott in sex in the city had a few!), also cocker spaniels!

we have persian cats, they aren't very active but they're very cuddly! have you thought of grooming cats as well as dogs? we're thinking of getting our cats trimmed on their tummies in the summer 'cause they're long haired and get really hot!

anyhow, don't worry, lots of people have given you lots of advice on this thread and they seem really nice too!

don't go away whatever you decide.... if you want to ask more questions/ask for advice, fab.

if you just wanna chat and hang out, fab!

good luck babe x x x

What happens when you have an attack?
is there something in particular that triggers them off?

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Originally posted by humanbean:
hi so so

you sound nice! a bit sensitive maybe, but then so are a lot of us!

which type of dog do you like best? we like spaniels, king charles are gorgeous (charlott in sex in the city had a few!), also cocker spaniels!

we have persian cats, they aren't very active but they're very cuddly! have you thought of grooming cats as well as dogs? we're thinking of getting our cats trimmed on their tummies in the summer 'cause they're long haired and get really hot!

anyhow, don't worry, lots of people have given you lots of advice on this thread and they seem really nice too!

don't go away whatever you decide.... if you want to ask more questions/ask for advice, fab.

if you just wanna chat and hang out, fab!

good luck babe x x x

ps i hang out on the richard n judy forum or the big brother forum. this is generally a safe community so so, the moderators are fab and and dodgy members get banned very quickly so feel free to chat

I would see the doctors, and maybe get a referall to the local Mental Health Unit as well.
I suffered from panic attacks and was put on medication last year, but now I have learned to control things and I am of the medication I was taking.
I am still seeing my psychiatrist but he is only there to advise me and help me.
Seeing a Psychiatrist doesn't mean you are totally insane, as they are there to help. They might even have a day center where you can met others who suffer similar problems and gain your confidence that way.

Go to your Doctor. Your symptoms are easily treatable through mild medication and cognitative therapy. See your doctor NOW. If you leave it any longer you will end up with 5 weeks in a "nut house". I'm allowed to say that, I've been there.
Do it NOW.

i suffer the same i only do a few hours a day at school over it i hav it reli bad its gettin beter these days tho i see a counceler she helps alot its cool n anythin that is beter than b4 is an achievment no matter what it is let in the postatives u say the dog groomin course u say is nuffin it is sumthin ur doin sumthin ur goin out ther u kno what i mean its all gud wiv me rite now it seems like everythink is goin rong im crap at scool i decide not to go most the tym get in a state wen i do go n cant spell or write to save my life...... any way n this course uv waited for do it its all kool n ppl in colledge ther wil be ppl like u tht suffer pannik attacks n anxiety ur not alone even tho it feels like u are just try it test it suprise ur self n be happy of what u can aaaaaaaaccctually do u kno wat i mean is all gud xxxxxxxxxx

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so so how old r u ??

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Originally posted by hailzSB**:
i suffer the same i only do a few hours a day at school over it i hav it reli bad its gettin beter these days tho i see a counceler she helps alot its cool n anythin that is beter than b4 is an achievment no matter what it is let in the postatives u say the dog groomin course u say is nuffin it is sumthin ur doin sumthin ur goin out ther u kno what i mean its all gud wiv me rite now it seems like everythink is goin rong im crap at scool i decide not to go most the tym get in a state wen i do go n cant spell or write to save my life...... any way n this course uv waited for do it its all kool n ppl in colledge ther wil be ppl like u tht suffer pannik attacks n anxiety ur not alone even tho it feels like u are just try it test it suprise ur self n be happy of what u can aaaaaaaaccctually do u kno wat i mean is all gud xxxxxxxxxx

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i am geting help ppl from my doctor i said im geting a lil help but there not doing much.

THANK YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH EVERY1 for your addvice and suport it has made me think a lot IM SO GREATFUL for that im glad every1 dosnt think im mad or wired and it dos feel like im the only one and that no one els is like it.

thank you hailzsb
you said some of what im feeling i hated shcool as well i only did a few lesons when i was at shcool the teachers felt sorry for me, but then i got bullied about it, so i ran away and didnt go bk to shcool iv seen a counceler befor when i was at school but only for 6 weeks and then it stoped, but i wasnt better i still hate feeling like this and my doctor dosnt do much for me and hailz how do you no that there will be ppl like me that suffer the same thing there they will just think im mad or wired do you no what i mean

and hailz im 17

I think a college course will turn out to be something that gives you a lot of confidence. I think you've got to at least try.

Once you make friends you'll be ok.

b'cause i kno u wnt be alone now ur expectations of ur replys on here wasnt high but look how many ppl ther are n look at me it sounds like were like the same been some clonin goin on here i dnt go scool now iv pretty much stopped anxiety n pannik attacks many ppl hav it but no one knows cuz we all feel the same like ppl will take the mik u kno how our minds wonder its mad but ppl wil be understandin n u wnt be alone ul be ok doctors am crap they never got no clue they come wid all this shit u either dnt understand or all them technicle answers its saft if u have msn add me il talk to u il hav2 put spaces tho jus put it togetha its...... drbrainhurts @yahoo.co.uk hope ta speak soon xxxxxxxxxx n no worries i kno what its like glad to help xxx