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ever since me n the babys dad decided to get back together my mum has been the biggest pain on earth, rejectin the fact that i want a proper family for my baby coz i never had a mum n dad with 2 sets of grandparents all i had was mum gran n grandad n aunty louise i never had a big family.
she jus rejects my babys father completely by ignorin him if hes sat in the house, he even makes the effort to talk to her but she jus ignores him, she doesnt even consider my feelings and trys to see from my point of veiw that bein stuck between her n my partner is so hurtfull, everythins bout her.
i told her last night i was soon to be movin out...i thot she might of been proud of me....nope again she had a face like a sour lemon in stead of pattin me on the back n sayin how proud of me she is shes jus makin me feel guilty.
i may have rushed into everythin but as the sayin goes better late than never, i jus want wats best for my child.


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ever since me n the babys dad decided to get back together my mum has been the biggest pain on earth, rejectin the fact that i want a proper family for my baby coz i never had a mum n dad with 2 sets of grandparents all i had was mum gran n grandad n aunty louise i never had a big family.
she jus rejects my babys father completely by ignorin him if hes sat in the house, he even makes the effort to talk to her but she jus ignores him, she doesnt even consider my feelings and trys to see from my point of veiw that bein stuck between her n my partner is so hurtfull, everythins bout her.
i told her last night i was soon to be movin out...i thot she might of been proud of me....nope again she had a face like a sour lemon in stead of pattin me on the back n sayin how proud of me she is shes jus makin me feel guilty.
i may have rushed into everythin but as the sayin goes better late than never, i jus want wats best for my child.


she might be worried about you maybe she thinks you can get better and deserve better she might just be frightend of losing you depending on why you and the babys dad split in the first place
 
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the reason y we split in the 1st place was because i was scared n confused as to wat i really wanted and my hormones had a part to play in it aswell coz i cudnt stand to be around him but since he gave me that space for time to think i realised that i do deeply care for him n i cudnt ask for a more lovelier person


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As long as he was treating you well before you split, i'm sure your mum will come around soon enough. Once she realises that it will make you happy. A happy Mum = a happy baby and a happy baby = a happy Mum.
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Hi there
well first of all mum's sometimes go a bit far , I wouldn't interfer in my daughter's life like that,and I think you are doing the right thing including your babies dad into there life, I just wish I could include my children's dads in theres.So you carry on and just ignore your mum if you can ,she obviously knows this is upsetting for you and she is probably doing it in the hope that you stop him from seeing his baby, You can always confront her and tell her she is upsetting you and also tell her your reasons why you want him involved in your babies life. Your mum should respect your choices I know I would and I've got a daughter who is nearly 15,
 
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parents can be like this for whatever reason.

they always think there is someone better for their daughters/son been there and my mother was a right pain in the ass.

she couldnt/wouldnt see that i was a grown up a woman in my own right she wanted to keep me a child well it didnt work and yes i made some bad choices but we have to learn from our mistakes they cant wrap us up in cotton wool our whole lives.

have a heart to heart with your mum and lay everything on the table.

she may never some round to your man, but you can say you tried thats all you can do hun
 
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