To parents what would u do if u found out ur child was gay bi or lesbian??

to kidds what would u do if u found out ur friend or brother or sister was gay lesbian or bi ??

please reply soon thanx ppl love yall xxxxx

thanks for that its cuz im a lesbian so far lol and but my mom n dad dont kno i think my mom wonders but growin up she has always sed if my kidds wer gay id kick em out i just wondered what other ppl thought my friends kno n u would be suprised how many lesbians n bi ppl there is theres loads i kno most from lincoln but there is loads every were these days i was just thinkin what other mums n dads n kidds think innit ....xxx

I wouldn't mind at all if my son was gay as long as he was happy. I suppose I might be a bit disappointed not to have grandchildren, but then there's no guarantee of grandchildren even if your kids are straight. My sister is a lesbian and I think my mum thinks it's quite cool to have a lesbian daughter. She likes mentioning the fact in public to see if she can shock people.

thats the way to be but my mom is reli homophobic i mean i dnt get on with my parents any way but i dnt wanna be takin the mic off cuz of the way i feel n kicked out n be put to shame over it i cant help my feelings

if one of my kids turns round when there older and tells me they are gay i'll be proud of them they are my kids after all.

being straight or gay doesnt matter to me one bit we are all people no matter what.

there is no shame in sexuality hailz only in the minds of biggoted people.as far as im concerned your parents should love you no matter what.

i really hope your parents accept you for who you are not what you are good luck

If I found out any of my children were gay obviously at first I would be very shocked. Once it had sunk in I would support my child as much as possible. It doesn´t change their personalities or the way they look so why should a parent change the way they look or feel about their child. I do agree with makeo on the dissappointment aspect though, I have only 1 son and 5 daughters, I would be upset that I wouldn´t have any grandchildren from him but that would never stop me loving him for who his is.

I think most children experience situations with the same sex as they are growing up and it´s what you feel is more comfortable and right for you.

Also Makeo, be careful when you read your sisters diary, they are private thoughts and sometimes a lot of frustrated anger, if she found out you read it she would feel really hurt as you would if she had done it to you. My mum read mine when I was 15 and she made me burn it, I was going through a really bad time in my life and my diary was the only thing that helped me vent my anger. I never forgave my mum for doing that. x

Anyway I think it is outragous if a parent chucks their son or daughter out! I would never do that to any of my children at the end of the day they are still my babies.

thanks ppl for ur thoughts and help glad u all did and u did all help greatly i dnt think il tell my mom or dad yet they dnt need to kno il wate till im out da country or sumst lol thanks again every one xxxxxxxxxx

Is´s horrible when they do that ... get one with a lock and key.

I know I´ve only got 25 (26 now) will have to do a lot more to catch up with you.

x

Well i'm not a parent. but if one of my brothers or sister told me they were gay it wouldnt change a thing. They're still my brother/sister and i'd love them the same.

help at the moment i hav got myself very confuesed im stuk omg this is soooooo wierd i might actually like fancey a ladd that i hav known for ages my best mate has had to litterally spell it to me i dnt kno what to do it might not seem a big deal but reli is

follow your heart but use your head as well! Good luck

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Originally posted by hailzSB**:
help at the moment i hav got myself very confuesed im stuk omg this is soooooo wierd i might actually like fancey a ladd that i hav known for ages my best mate has had to litterally spell it to me i dnt kno what to do it might not seem a big deal but reli is

i agree with tug do what you feel is right.if you find its not for you then at least you will know.

good luck hope everything goes good for you

i'll be perfectly honest and say that i really wouldnt be upset if my son was gay but i think i may be upset if my daughter was a lesbian. i think it's probably because i like the idea of being girlie with my daughter and as mum im bound to have a problem with any girlfriend of either of my kids (think mother in law from hell). i suppose if my daughter was gay, i may be upset but i certainly wouldnt let it affect our relationship. it's her life and i'd be more upset if she was a criminal or had a drug habit. Actually, i can think of loads of stuff that would bother me more than her being gay.

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Originally posted by gobraves:
i'll be perfectly honest and say that i really wouldnt be upset if my son was gay but i think i may be upset if my daughter was a lesbian. i think it's probably because i like the idea of being girlie with my daughter and as mum im bound to have a problem with any girlfriend of either of my kids (think mother in law from hell). i suppose if my daughter was gay, i may be upset but i certainly wouldnt let it affect our relationship. it's her life and i'd be more upset if she was a criminal or had a drug habit. Actually, i can think of loads of stuff that would bother me more than her being gay.

thats kool i understand that i aint gona tell my mom till im fair away ennuf for her not to get to me or any thin she wud kill me very homophobic but i cant help feelings i hav a girlfriend n i kno everyone says its discusting n stuff but at the end of the day u love that person like a girl wud like a boy or boy like a girl everyone knows about me reli now sept my family all my friends that matter kno n my friends mom lol

Well my daughters only 2 so I cant comment...
And im very sure my older brothers not gay he has four daughters....

why what u say lol