help i have noticed since my daughter started nursery 6 mths ago she has started being nasty to the other kids saying things like i hate you and very bossy and somtimes hits them i am embarest because its usaly at home time maybe i should have a word with the nursery teather any ideas

I expect she has learnt it from some other kid, who probably did it to her. Just make sure that you are giving her full attention when you are there, so she doesn't feel the need to show off. Perhaps arrive early and encourage a bit of co-operative play.

i would talk to the nursery teacher, just to find out the core of the problem.. make sure she has settled properly and if she has made friends ok, they should want to help if they can