Originally posted by Marguerita: I agree I think it is a good idea having been attacked myself it might have helped me defend myself ,but to be honest I just froze I was so scared
Originally posted by Marguerita: I agree I think it is a good idea having been attacked myself it might have helped me defend myself ,but to be honest I just froze I was so scared
also those rape alarms are good
My husband got one from the police station after I was attacked thankfully I never had to use it
Originally posted by aloo: I agree tis a good idea, however, if everybody has these skills maybe the yobs will become more violent to compensate
I didn't think about that. Good point. Yeah it's a shame yobs spoil things, for example where I live and near where I live I have saw many bus shelters and phone box doors smashed sadly
Originally posted by bagel queen: the only thing is, if someone gets you from behind, all the self defence classes in the world may not help, but you will have a better chance!
very interesting LIL..silver car? that bit made me laugh in an ironic way. I have had a bag stolen off of me while it has been over my shoulder...heres what they do: they ride past you on a push bike and go to ask you something, then as you turn towards them, they cut the straps off your bag that quick with scissors and are well gone before you come to your senses! thats why when women wear bags as a sacthel style, they are ripe for the picking so to speak
Be Yourself Coz Those Who Mind Don't Matter and Those Who Matter Don't Mind.
Originally posted by bagel queen: the only thing is, if someone gets you from behind, all the self defence classes in the world may not help, but you will have a better chance!
Thats what happened to me the person came from behind me ,and put their hand over my mouth I went like jelly I was really frightened
I was attacked 20 years ago bagel I was 37 years old then ,to be honest I dont like talking about my age on here, as a fm who posts mainly on off topic called me an old bag along with a whole string of other insults ,my health is not great as I have Lupus (SLE) I was diagnosed 7years ago and have been very ill with it but I am in remission at the moment ,but it has affected how I live in so many ways but I am so lucky I have a great family who are always there for me, and my lovely forum friends on here who I chat to everyday ,another long post sorry
aww marge! dont tell me who called you names coz I am liable to say something which will only cause more probz for you on here. 57 is no age...how dare they grr grr! I think you are a beautiful person and I am very honoured to be your friend...I dont care how long your posts are..I care about you.
Be Yourself Coz Those Who Mind Don't Matter and Those Who Matter Don't Mind.
Hi bagel no I would not mention the person who said these things to me it was over a year ago,Thank you bagel for your lovely post it has made my day or should I say evening