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iloveolga
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How is everyone coping with xmas preps, I have not got nothing this year as I have just lost my grandmother, and cannot be bothered with xmas, plus it's my birthday on Xmas Eve. Hope you all have a jolly xmas, will be on the forum regularly, to take my mind off things though.
 
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CharlotteLovesPOG
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Hi iloveolga Smile

I've nearly finished my Xmas shopping,just one more thing to buy and im done Santa

Im so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I know what its like, its awful cos i lost my gran 4 years ago and it was in October so Xmas that year was really hard.
Despite whats happened i still hope you have a good Xmas and my thoughts are with you Smile xx


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Im really sorry to hear your news. That is such a bad time of year to lose someone close. Try to think they wouldnt want you to be miserable though. Its hard I know Ive been there a few times. Take care.
 
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i am so sorry for your lose, but it is true, life still goes on....

i lost my dad on 18th Dec 1987 ( i was 21 ), and i lost my sister on 14th Dec , 3 years ago ... it is very sad whatever the date, but Christmas is a special time and we tried very hard to celebrate it,....
i know if anything happened to me, i wouldn't want my family to be sad ALL the time .

we now have a special meal over Christmas for each lost member of the family... with what was their fav dessert... my sister's was Banoffee Pie and my dad's was trifle... silly really , but it is special for us Smile


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GemsLuvsOlga
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I am so sorry for your loss, christmas can be a hard time of year sometimes. Julesyog I think its really lovely what you do with your family, I am sure your Dad and Sister would be pleased.


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So sorry to hear of your loss, My heart goes out to you. I know how you must feel. My father died suddenly from a heart attack so thats why Im always worrying about Paul. It was nearly 9 years ago but I still miss him like crazy.


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vanessavixen
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Hello Iloveolga!

So sorry to hear of your sad loss!
I lost my mother just after my 16th birthday, she so wanted to see
Christmas that year but sadly couldn t! The previous year she built a mini snowman on the window ledge as she was too ill to venture outside! I will always remember that day!
Keeping a memory in my heart helps me carry on!
 
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seaslug
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I always light a candle and think nice thoughts of all the ones Ive lost and that includes animals too.
 
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vanessavixen
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Thats a lovely thing to do Seaslug! I m going to light a candle in memory of my precious Cat this year. Tree
 
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Are thank you Vanessvixen. Its the little things that help. Its not so bad these days but People think sometimes you are mad grieving over an animal. When I lost a dog at 6. I made a little area with his fav toy, a photo, and a few other bits and that really helped me to overcome the grief. I have lots of animals but it doesnt get any better you still miss that one animal. Last week one of my budgies died and I was very sad about that. YOu miss their antics just as much but just cos its not a larger animal people think it doesnt matter.
 
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iloveolga
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Hi iloveolga Smile

I've nearly finished my Xmas shopping,just one more thing to buy and im done Santa

Im so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I know what its like, its awful cos i lost my gran 4 years ago and it was in October so Xmas that year was really hard.
Despite whats happened i still hope you have a good Xmas and my thoughts are with you Smile xx
Thanx for that. I will try and have a nice xmas, hope you do too.
 
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vanessavixen
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Seaslug! So very sorry to hear about your Budgie! As you know, I feel the same way about the loss of an animal, I think its strange when people dont! They are part of the family and it s surely only natural to feel sad at their loss!
I think you re brilliant to care so much, and my thoughts are with you. Animals have feelings and personalaties just like we do! I hope Christmas isn t too sad for you. bless you.
 
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iloveolga
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Im really sorry to hear your news. That is such a bad time of year to lose someone close. Try to think they wouldnt want you to be miserable though. Its hard I know Ive been there a few times. Take care.
Thanx Seaslug, It's hard for me as I lost my mum at xmas 16 years ago. Will try and have a goood xmas. Hope you have a good xmas too.
 
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iloveolga
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i am so sorry for your lose, but it is true, life still goes on....

i lost my dad on 18th Dec 1987 ( i was 21 ), and i lost my sister on 14th Dec , 3 years ago ... it is very sad whatever the date, but Christmas is a special time and we tried very hard to celebrate it,....
i know if anything happened to me, i wouldn't want my family to be sad ALL the time .

we now have a special meal over Christmas for each lost member of the family... with what was their fav dessert... my sister's was Banoffee Pie and my dad's was trifle... silly really , but it is special for us Smile
No it's not silly, people remember family in their own special ways.
 
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iloveolga
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Are thank you Vanessvixen. Its the little things that help. Its not so bad these days but People think sometimes you are mad grieving over an animal. When I lost a dog at 6. I made a little area with his fav toy, a photo, and a few other bits and that really helped me to overcome the grief. I have lots of animals but it doesnt get any better you still miss that one animal. Last week one of my budgies died and I was very sad about that. YOu miss their antics just as much but just cos its not a larger animal people think it doesnt matter.
Don't be silly, an animal,as a pet is part of the family, and I can remember when I adopted a dog from the RSPCA, If I hadn't of had him he would have been put to sleep the next dy, as they were running out of kennel spaces, he had a happy 8 years with me until he passed away, due to kidney and liver failure. Pets are members of the family as far as I am concerned.
 
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lizina
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SantaI have just written my cards and still have a few presents to buy yet.
I am sorry about your loss at christmas I know how you feel as My dad died on dec 14 and my mum at 13 Jan so I know just what you are going through you will be in my thoughts


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seaslug
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Hi Ya Folks. Many thanks for the kind words. Its nice to be able to come on here and chat even if not Paul related, Im sure he would join in too if he could. Its nice to know there is some compassion left in this world we all live in now. We all seem to have a sad story to tell but its nice to be able to share your thoughts at times even if you dont know the person.
 
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Paul's Mistress
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I love the way Paul hates the thought of XMAS Big Grin espically lately when the audeince sing XMAS songs *giggles* Big Grin


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